a year of challenges and growth in 2023
Reflecting on 2023: A Year of Growth and Change
As 2023 comes to a close, it’s time to look back at the moments that have shaped this year. It’s been a journey of ups and downs, filled with challenges, growth, and a commitment to my own well-being and self-respect.
A Family’s Heartbeat Restored
The year started with a scare when my mother’s health took a sudden turn. The days spent in the hospital were tough, filled with uncertainty. But through it all, my mother’s strength pulled us through. Her recovery was a blessing and reminded me of the resilience we all carry within us.
Leaving Home to Find Peace
A major step was leaving my family home. It had become a place of tension, and I needed space to heal and grow. Walking away wasn’t easy, but it was necessary to find peace and create a healthier environment for myself.
New Adventures and Growth
This year also pushed me out of my comfort zone. Learning to ride a motorbike was more than just a fun hobby—it was a way to regain confidence and take on new challenges. Each ride was a reminder of the freedom and joy that come from trying new things.
Choosing Self-Respect
In my personal life, I faced the end of a relationship. Instead of feeling defeated, I walked away with my self-respect intact, realizing that I deserve more than just settling. It was a step toward valuing myself and setting higher standards in all aspects of life.
Balancing Family Relationships
Family relationships were a tricky part of this year. Staying connected with my father and sister, while also protecting myself from negativity, required setting boundaries. It’s been a balancing act, but one I’ve managed while continuing to support my mother.
Embracing Change
2023 was also a year of new friendships and letting go of old ones. Each connection, whether made or lost, played a part in shaping who I am today.
Books That Mattered
I read 27 books this year, and a few really stood out. “The People in the Trees” by Hanya Yanagihara and “Bolla” by Pajtim Statovci were especially impactful, leaving lasting impressions and helping me see the world in new ways.
A Shift in Perspective
The events in Palestine also made me rethink my beliefs and values, opening my eyes to the importance of justice and compassion. It was a powerful moment of realization that has changed how I approach life and the world around me.
Looking Forward
As I step into 2024, I do so with gratitude for all that 2023 has taught me. The challenges and triumphs have helped me grow, and I’m ready to embrace the new year with strength, wisdom, and a renewed sense of purpose.
31st Dec. 2023